As a preachers kid, and now in the ministry myself; I am often asked what it was that my parents did that resulted in me following in their footsteps.
Before I go any further, let me first say that our ministry is a calling from God and it is not a “genetic” or an “inherited” thing. We all have a ministry as part of the body of Christ, and it is our responsibility to answer the call of God on our life and to do what He wants us to do. As parents, my wife and I do not pray that our children will become preachers, teachers, apostles, prophets or evangelists; but our prayer is that they will answer the call of God on their lives, and be involved in their God-ordained ministry.
My parents never put any sort of pressure or expectation on me to be a preacher or pastor. That pressure was there, but it usually came from “well meaning” people who would say things like “are you going to be a preacher like your daddy one day”. However, my parents did encourage me to be active in ministry, whether it was assisting in the maintenance of the church grounds (mowing lawns and gardening), playing musical instruments, or any other activities around the church.
So what did my parents do? First of all…..prayer! I acknowledge that it is only by the grace of God and the prayers of my parents that I am serving God today. I know my parents were not perfect, but they loved God, loved each other, and loved their children. What more could one ask for?
My parents were Godly examples – they were the same at home as they were at church. There was no “fake”. There wasn’t any “turning it on for the church people”. I believe that one of the most important things in raising children in the ministry is “authenticity”.
My parents modelled the importance of having priorities. We were taught that God was our first priority and my parents modelled the application of that principle in life. Now looking back, I can see that when priorities are “nailed down”, it makes decision making a lot easier. I remember many problems being sorted out by going back to our values and priorities. I recall a discussion about playing “just one game” of cricket on a Sunday. It was never going to happen – because Sunday is church. Cricket is for every other day of the week except Sunday. Although I wasn’t always happy with the outcome of the decision, it was always consistent.
There were times when I would have preferred to be just one of the other church kids, and not have to deal with the expectation that preacher’s kids are born angels and don’t do anything wrong. If you don’t remember anything else I’ve written, please remember that preacher’s kids are like any other child. Please don’t expect them to be anything else.
Recently I was reading the gripping account of Abraham and Isaac, and it occurred to me that Isaac was never consulted about the little expedition he and his dad took. When Abraham headed up to the mountain to worship, we do not read of Abraham asking for Isaac’s opinion. Similarly, being born into a ministry family is not something children get to choose.
When Isaac was bound on that altar, he was caught up in something that was a matter between Abraham and God. Abraham said, “me and my boy will go yonder and worship” (Gen 22:5). I cannot see anywhere where Isaac was okay about it.
Isaac was a “victim” of somebody else’s decision, and his dad called it worship. Sometimes being a “preacher's kid” feels like that.
To take it a step further, Abraham made Isaac carry the wood for the sacrifice. Here is Isaac climbing up the mountain carrying the wood (a burden) which was somebody else’s decision entirely. Isaac ends up bound on an altar with a knife to his throat and it was all because of Abraham’s issue with God. This was not a matter between Isaac and Abraham, it was about Abraham showing his love to God.
Reading through the account I was gripped with thoughts of what Isaac must have been thinking when it dawned on him what was going on. Abraham didn’t say “we are going up to the mountain and I’m going to slit your throat”. No – he said “we are going to go worship”.
Isaac says, “I see the wood and I see the fire – but where is the sacrifice”. (Gen 22:7)
Abraham didn’t say “you’re the one Isaac – I am going to sacrifice you”. He said “God will provide the sacrifice”. (Gen 22:8)
Without these words, I don’t think Abraham could have made it - “Son….God will provide”.
The next time a question comes, speak these words “God will provide”.
Worship requires sacrifice. But God will provide what is needed for you to achieve God’s pleasure in your life. Our responsibility is to climb and rely on God to provide.
As the story progresses, the knife is about to come down and Isaac is gazing into his fathers face (who is worshipping remember). Isaac is the victim and he is about to lose his life. Then, right in the middle of his dilemma, Isaac heard the voice of God. The Bible says that the angel of the LORD spoke to Abraham out of heaven (Genesis 22:11). As a result of this whole expedition, not only did God know Abraham was committed but there was a young man who heard the voice of grace. Isaacs bonds are loosed he is a changed individual, because he heard the voice of God in his dilemma.
If I was Isaac, I would have responded by saying, “Dad, let me have a word with you. That almost killed me and I don’t want anything to do with it. Your idea of worshipping God and serving God is too much for me and I want out”. But that was not Isaac.
We read in the Bible about God being “the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob”. Here is Isaac, who for the most part was not notable. Other than being the one on the altar at the mercy of his dad, Isaac is not really known for anything. Everything Isaac received, he received from his dad. Isaac didn’t dig his own wells, he re-dug his dad’s wells. Isaac didn’t accumulate wealth, He inherited wealth from his dad.
While Isaac didn’t dig his own wells, he still had to access the life giving water for himself. In other words, he had to make them his own. All children, especially ministry children, need to make “things” their own.
As parents, we need to demonstrate to a lifestyle/environment that will hopefully influence them to choose life. They must experience the same God that we love and serve! They must experience God for themselves. This will give them a thirst that can only be quenched by God himself, leading them to drink for the same wells that we drink from – following in our footsteps.
For most people, if they had to go through an experience like Isaac, it would turn them against God for the rest of their life. Sometimes it can feel like your on the altar and you had no say in it at all. It can feel like you are carrying a burden to your own sacrifice – all because dad and mum are doing the “worship thing”.
I’ve heard of many tragic stories of preacher’s kids developing bitterness against God for what they had to go through as a child in a ministry family. Some walk away from God, not wanting anything to do with church. Some even walk away from their parents.
However, looking at the account of Abraham and Isaac, it strikes me is that after such a traumatic experience – Isaac went still we onto to live for God and still served God.
Think about it……
· How could Isaac go down that mountain and look at his father again?
· How could Isaac go on to re-dig his dad’s wells?
· How could Isaac go on to succeed his dad in his legacy by embracing his heritage?
Isaac equated his dad’s desperate attempts to please the Lord to his faith! He equated his desperate attempts to please the Lord to the credibility of his God, and Isaac said “I want that” and I am going to spend the rest of my life honouring my father.
The best thing you can do for your children is live a life of faith. When you do so, you are showing your children that we serve a great God. Your illogical decisions (in trusting in God) will serve to show your children that there is a power beyond “the preacher”. Your children will equate your worship to the credibility of your God. God will provide!
Your act of faith will allow your children to hear the voice of God for themselves, and they can walk off that mountain knowing that God will provide. There will be no hesitation in trusting God through the sacrificial giving of their life – in ministry.
Friday, October 21, 2011
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Another Level
Genesis 19:15-22
[15] And when the morning arose, then the angels hastened Lot, saying, Arise, take thy wife, and thy two daughters, which are here; lest thou be consumed in the iniquity of the city.
[16] And while he lingered, the men laid hold upon his hand, and upon the hand of his wife, and upon the hand of his two daughters; the LORD being merciful unto him: and they brought him forth, and set him without the city.
[17] And it came to pass, when they had brought them forth abroad, that he said, Escape for thy life; look not behind thee, neither stay thou in all the plain; escape to the mountain, lest thou be consumed.
[18] And Lot said unto them, Oh, not so, my Lord:
[19] Behold now, thy servant hath found grace in thy sight, and thou hast magnified thy mercy, which thou hast shewed unto me in saving my life; and I cannot escape to the mountain, lest some evil take me, and I die:
[20] Behold now, this city is near to flee unto, and it is a little one: Oh, let me escape thither, (is it not a little one?) and my soul shall live.
[21] And he said unto him, See, I have accepted thee concerning this thing also, that I will not overthrow this city, for the which thou hast spoken.
[22] Haste thee, escape thither; for I cannot do any thing till thou be come thither. Therefore the name of the city was called Zoar.
[23] The sun was risen upon the earth when Lot entered into Zoar.
Judgement is centered on Sodom and Gomorrah, but mercy provides a way of escape for Lot. The Bible says that the angel of the Lord hastened Lot to get out of the city let he and his family be consumed in the iniquity of the city, but Lot lingered.
The Bible goes on to say that God put him outside of the city and told him to “escape for they life, don’t look back, don’t stay in the plain – go to the mountain – let thou be consumed”.
Grace and mercy reaches after him and pulls him and his family out of Sodom and Gomorrah.
Notice this…..the mercy of God can pull you out of destruction, but will always give you instruction. We must heed God’s instruction.
The mercy of God will always be accompanied with instruction. Think about the woman caught in the act of adultery. Mercy steps on the scene and saves her from destruction, but Jesus gives her some instructions.
Mercy meets a man possessed with demons, heals him, and puts him in his right mind. The mercy of God reaches out to Him, then Jesus gives him instruction (Mark 5:19).
If the mercy of God has pulled you out of destruction – be careful to follow the instruction of the Lord! Follow the instruction of the Lord.
God told Lot to go to the mountain (another level), but Lot compromised and wanted to stay in the same proximity – the familiar. Lot said “Oh, not so, my Lord” (Genesis 19:18), how about I go to this small place nearby (Genesis 19:20). Lot thought he had a better idea!
I’ve been in the church long enough to know the some people want to be delivered, but they aren’t ready to change their lifestyle. They prefer, like Lot, to go to a small place that is nearby. They prefer the same old same old. Lot comprises going to another level to go to this little place.
[20] Behold now, this city is near to flee unto, and it is a little one: Oh, let me escape thither, (is it not a little one?) and my soul shall live.
If the mercy of God has touched your life, make sure you follow His instructions because He will take you to another level.
That’s my five minutes!
[15] And when the morning arose, then the angels hastened Lot, saying, Arise, take thy wife, and thy two daughters, which are here; lest thou be consumed in the iniquity of the city.
[16] And while he lingered, the men laid hold upon his hand, and upon the hand of his wife, and upon the hand of his two daughters; the LORD being merciful unto him: and they brought him forth, and set him without the city.
[17] And it came to pass, when they had brought them forth abroad, that he said, Escape for thy life; look not behind thee, neither stay thou in all the plain; escape to the mountain, lest thou be consumed.
[18] And Lot said unto them, Oh, not so, my Lord:
[19] Behold now, thy servant hath found grace in thy sight, and thou hast magnified thy mercy, which thou hast shewed unto me in saving my life; and I cannot escape to the mountain, lest some evil take me, and I die:
[20] Behold now, this city is near to flee unto, and it is a little one: Oh, let me escape thither, (is it not a little one?) and my soul shall live.
[21] And he said unto him, See, I have accepted thee concerning this thing also, that I will not overthrow this city, for the which thou hast spoken.
[22] Haste thee, escape thither; for I cannot do any thing till thou be come thither. Therefore the name of the city was called Zoar.
[23] The sun was risen upon the earth when Lot entered into Zoar.
Judgement is centered on Sodom and Gomorrah, but mercy provides a way of escape for Lot. The Bible says that the angel of the Lord hastened Lot to get out of the city let he and his family be consumed in the iniquity of the city, but Lot lingered.
The Bible goes on to say that God put him outside of the city and told him to “escape for they life, don’t look back, don’t stay in the plain – go to the mountain – let thou be consumed”.
Grace and mercy reaches after him and pulls him and his family out of Sodom and Gomorrah.
Notice this…..the mercy of God can pull you out of destruction, but will always give you instruction. We must heed God’s instruction.
The mercy of God will always be accompanied with instruction. Think about the woman caught in the act of adultery. Mercy steps on the scene and saves her from destruction, but Jesus gives her some instructions.
Mercy meets a man possessed with demons, heals him, and puts him in his right mind. The mercy of God reaches out to Him, then Jesus gives him instruction (Mark 5:19).
If the mercy of God has pulled you out of destruction – be careful to follow the instruction of the Lord! Follow the instruction of the Lord.
God told Lot to go to the mountain (another level), but Lot compromised and wanted to stay in the same proximity – the familiar. Lot said “Oh, not so, my Lord” (Genesis 19:18), how about I go to this small place nearby (Genesis 19:20). Lot thought he had a better idea!
I’ve been in the church long enough to know the some people want to be delivered, but they aren’t ready to change their lifestyle. They prefer, like Lot, to go to a small place that is nearby. They prefer the same old same old. Lot comprises going to another level to go to this little place.
[20] Behold now, this city is near to flee unto, and it is a little one: Oh, let me escape thither, (is it not a little one?) and my soul shall live.
If the mercy of God has touched your life, make sure you follow His instructions because He will take you to another level.
That’s my five minutes!
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Daddy!
John 14:18 – “I will not leave you comfortless, I will come to you”.
Jesus is speaking in John 14 and He tells us that He will not leave us comfortless. That work comfortless means “orphans” or “fatherless”. Jesus is saying “I will not leave you without a Daddy”.
Paul is speaking in Romans 8 and says “whereby we have the Spirit of adoption whereby we cry Abba Father” or “Daddy Father”.
When we come to church we come to “engage” with God, to meet with God, to talk to God, to worship Him, to hear from Him.
In thinking about God as our Daddy, it helps us to understand the fundamentals of our relationship with God and the way we interact with God. Unfortunately many struggle to have a close relationship with God because of a misunderstanding of exactly who God is to us. Many people approach God with the mentality that they have to beg Him to help them or beg Him to meet with them, or beg Him to talk to them.
We feel like we have to say “Daddy, please heal me”, “Daddy, please deliver me” or “Daddy, please touch me”.
Having a child, it has helped me better understand God as my father. It has also helped me understand the dynamics of my relationship with God. Lachlan doesn’t approach me begging for something……he just walks up to me and says “Daddy, I want this”. He can trust me, as Daddy, to talk to Him, deal with him properly, love Him, to be there for Him.
Many today are weary and in the middle of a battle. Many are warn out, and yet the battle is not over. What God is saying is “I have come to pick you up. I want to put you in my lap and minister to you, comfort you – minister health, comfort and healing to you”.
In Luke 4, Jesus is saying “I am anointed to preach the deliverance to the poor”.
Psalm 23:4 – ye, though “I” walk. Not “we”. “I” will feel no evil…..for “thou” are with me. Jesus is saying “I told you – you will be alone, and although no human help would be there – I will be with you”.
We have a God who is our father, and like a Daddy that takes the hand of a child and walks them through dangerous places such as car parks, past big scary dogs, across the busy and dangerous streets – He is with us always. He is like a daddy who is there to comfort a child after they have had a bad dream. Daddy makes it all OK!
What God wants us to know is, “I am your Daddy” – you don’t have to beg me, wonder if I want to touch you, minister to you, heal you, deliver you, comfort you.
You belong to God, you are His child – you don’t have to wonder if God is going to show up!
He is not a “dead beat” dad. You don’t have to seek after Him. He said “I will not leave you comfortless, I will come to you”.
Daddy is coming. When you understand this, you will find “rest”.
Jesus is speaking in John 14 and He tells us that He will not leave us comfortless. That work comfortless means “orphans” or “fatherless”. Jesus is saying “I will not leave you without a Daddy”.
Paul is speaking in Romans 8 and says “whereby we have the Spirit of adoption whereby we cry Abba Father” or “Daddy Father”.
When we come to church we come to “engage” with God, to meet with God, to talk to God, to worship Him, to hear from Him.
In thinking about God as our Daddy, it helps us to understand the fundamentals of our relationship with God and the way we interact with God. Unfortunately many struggle to have a close relationship with God because of a misunderstanding of exactly who God is to us. Many people approach God with the mentality that they have to beg Him to help them or beg Him to meet with them, or beg Him to talk to them.
We feel like we have to say “Daddy, please heal me”, “Daddy, please deliver me” or “Daddy, please touch me”.
Having a child, it has helped me better understand God as my father. It has also helped me understand the dynamics of my relationship with God. Lachlan doesn’t approach me begging for something……he just walks up to me and says “Daddy, I want this”. He can trust me, as Daddy, to talk to Him, deal with him properly, love Him, to be there for Him.
Many today are weary and in the middle of a battle. Many are warn out, and yet the battle is not over. What God is saying is “I have come to pick you up. I want to put you in my lap and minister to you, comfort you – minister health, comfort and healing to you”.
In Luke 4, Jesus is saying “I am anointed to preach the deliverance to the poor”.
Psalm 23:4 – ye, though “I” walk. Not “we”. “I” will feel no evil…..for “thou” are with me. Jesus is saying “I told you – you will be alone, and although no human help would be there – I will be with you”.
We have a God who is our father, and like a Daddy that takes the hand of a child and walks them through dangerous places such as car parks, past big scary dogs, across the busy and dangerous streets – He is with us always. He is like a daddy who is there to comfort a child after they have had a bad dream. Daddy makes it all OK!
What God wants us to know is, “I am your Daddy” – you don’t have to beg me, wonder if I want to touch you, minister to you, heal you, deliver you, comfort you.
You belong to God, you are His child – you don’t have to wonder if God is going to show up!
He is not a “dead beat” dad. You don’t have to seek after Him. He said “I will not leave you comfortless, I will come to you”.
Daddy is coming. When you understand this, you will find “rest”.
Monday, November 2, 2009
Between "To Will" and "To Do"
Philippians 2:13: For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.
In this scripture, Paul differentiates between God’s desire to do something in our life and the fulfilment of that desire. It is God who works in you both “to will and to do”. Paul is telling the church at Phillip that God wants to work amongst them because he wants to do His will in their life.
For those reading this short devotional – I want you to know that God wants to do His will in your life. God gets pleasure when we are in His will.
So when God works among us, it is not just to entertain us, but it is to put us into a position where He can do in our lives the things that He wants to do – “His good pleasure”.
There is comfort that comes only when you know that you are in the will of God and doing what God has called you to do. Who is it that wants to do the will of God?
But, what do you do if you don’t know God will. There will be times when you cannot honestly say that you are in the perfect will of God. There will be times when we stand between to the “to will” and the “to do”. What do you do when you find yourself in this position?
Genesis 12 tells the story about Abraham, when he was 75 years old, being called out of his country and away from his family unto a land that God would show him. God said “I will make of thee a great nation, and I will bless thee, and make thy name great; and thou shalt be a blessing: and I will bless them that bless thee, and curse him that curseth thee: and in thee shall all families of the earth be blessed”. What a promise? But how was Abraham going to inherit the promise? God told him to walk! Just walk! “I’m not going to tell you where it is now Abraham. First you’ve got to walk!”
If you read the account you will find that Abraham walked for 15 years and then stopped. Abraham turns 90 years old and He gets in God’s face and says “God, I’m 90 years old now and I’ve walked 15 years from Ur. I don’t understand how I am in this position. I’ve got to know your will”. God looks at him and says “Abraham, the day that I called you I told you to walk…now get up and walk before me Abraham, my ways are still the same”.
If you are between “to will” and “to do”, and you don’t know what God’s will is at this time, just walk in God’s ways. You may not know His will, but His ways have not changed! It is His ways that will lead you into His will!
Don’t allow the confusion of what you don’t understand to push your heart away from the passion of the things you do understand. When you don’t know His will, you’ve got to remember His ways. It is His ways that will lead you into His will!
That's my five minutes!
In this scripture, Paul differentiates between God’s desire to do something in our life and the fulfilment of that desire. It is God who works in you both “to will and to do”. Paul is telling the church at Phillip that God wants to work amongst them because he wants to do His will in their life.
For those reading this short devotional – I want you to know that God wants to do His will in your life. God gets pleasure when we are in His will.
So when God works among us, it is not just to entertain us, but it is to put us into a position where He can do in our lives the things that He wants to do – “His good pleasure”.
There is comfort that comes only when you know that you are in the will of God and doing what God has called you to do. Who is it that wants to do the will of God?
But, what do you do if you don’t know God will. There will be times when you cannot honestly say that you are in the perfect will of God. There will be times when we stand between to the “to will” and the “to do”. What do you do when you find yourself in this position?
Genesis 12 tells the story about Abraham, when he was 75 years old, being called out of his country and away from his family unto a land that God would show him. God said “I will make of thee a great nation, and I will bless thee, and make thy name great; and thou shalt be a blessing: and I will bless them that bless thee, and curse him that curseth thee: and in thee shall all families of the earth be blessed”. What a promise? But how was Abraham going to inherit the promise? God told him to walk! Just walk! “I’m not going to tell you where it is now Abraham. First you’ve got to walk!”
If you read the account you will find that Abraham walked for 15 years and then stopped. Abraham turns 90 years old and He gets in God’s face and says “God, I’m 90 years old now and I’ve walked 15 years from Ur. I don’t understand how I am in this position. I’ve got to know your will”. God looks at him and says “Abraham, the day that I called you I told you to walk…now get up and walk before me Abraham, my ways are still the same”.
If you are between “to will” and “to do”, and you don’t know what God’s will is at this time, just walk in God’s ways. You may not know His will, but His ways have not changed! It is His ways that will lead you into His will!
Don’t allow the confusion of what you don’t understand to push your heart away from the passion of the things you do understand. When you don’t know His will, you’ve got to remember His ways. It is His ways that will lead you into His will!
That's my five minutes!
Thursday, September 10, 2009
What i learnt from a telemarketer!
“And there were four leprous men at the entering in of the gate: and they said one to another, Why sit we here until we die? If we say, We will enter into the city, then the famine is in the city, and we shall die there: and if we sit still here, we die also. Now therefore come, and let us fall unto the host of the Syrians: if they save us alive, we shall live; and if they kill us, we shall but die.” (II Kings 7:3-4)“And from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it by force.” (Matthew 11:12)
Who likes telemarketers? I think I hear a resounding…..NOT ME! I have never met a person that likes receiving a call from a telemarketer. I admit, the first thing I think about when I realise that I have answered a phone call from a telemarketer is “how can I get off this call”. I admit, I have resorted to hanging up sometimes when it seems that the person isn’t going to stop for a breath and doesn’t seem to be listening to me. Why is it that they always call in the middle of dinner?
Given Australians dislike for telemarketers, it got me thinking. Why on earth do companies persist with such marketing methods. You would think that cold-calling people would have to be the most unproductive way of drumming up business. Yet it seems we still get these calls.
Companies use telemarketers because they know that if they sit around waiting for more business, they will more than likely not get it. They have to be aggressive!
You have to admire these Samaritan lepers. They realised that they were in a “lose-lose” situation. They realised that no one was going to offer them food in the midst of a famine, and if they were going to get rid of those hunger pains, they would have to take matters into their own hands. If they maintained the unchanging status quo, then they were going to get the same results that they had been getting—no food and ultimately death. They realised that they would have to be aggressive.
Why is it that minority groups in our society seem to have such “loud” voices? One word “aggressive”. They’ve got something to fight for – something that they believe in and it is worth fighting for. They will push against mainstream society in order to have their voice heard!
Think about the gay community. They have risen to prominence via a core group who zealously promoted its cause. Within the last 20 years, homosexuality has become acceptable by most media outlets. It’s being promoted in schools as a normal lifestyle and anyone with differing viewpoints may be taken to court. Even some churches are now accepting this lifestyle in their organisation – even why the Bible calls it an abomination (something God hates). These people are aggressive about what they believe.
God wants Christians to be aggressive about His kingdom, too. That’s why Jesus said that the violent take heaven by force (Matthew 11:12). A good paraphrase would be that those wanting to make it to heaven are going to have to shove their way past anything that gets in their way.
Jesus said, “Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness, for they shall be filled” (Matthew 5:6).
Are we being aggressive about God daily, or are we satisfied with the status quo. Church attendance, occasional prayer, the odd Bible study. Has your walk with God become something you do with your spare time? Let’s get serious about this thing!
That's my five minutes!
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Every individual must write his or her own ending to this story!
Luke 15:28-32
28 And he was angry, and would not go in: therefore came his father out, and intreated him.
31 And he said unto him, Son, thou art ever with me, and all that I have is thine.
32 It was meet that we should make merry, and be glad: for this thy brother was dead, and is alive again; and was lost, and is found.
The petition he heard from his father.
1. It was a petition of pleading
- The father went out and “entreated” this boy to come in to the feast.
- The word “entreat” means “to come alongside of another to offer aid and comfort, to beg, to console, to comfort, to encourage".
- It is the same word that is translated “Comforter” in John 16:13 and is one of the names of the Holy Spirit. This father loved him.
2. It was a petition of promise
- The father praised him for his efforts, and reminded him that everything was already his! In effect, this father was saying, “I value you and our relationship together more than I value your works".
- This boy could have enjoyed fellowship with the father anytime he wanted, but apparently, he was too wrapped up within his own legalism and narrow-mindedness to realise it.
- This boy wanted what the father had, but he did not want the father, and he did not want anyone else to have the father either.
- What a tragedy!
3. It was a petition of priorities
- The father tells this boy that is was “meet” that they should have this celebration. The word “meet” means “necessary”. To the father, the return of the lost son was a cause for celebration.
- A lost one had been found.
- One considered dead was now alive again.
You see, instead of pouting, this boy could have been partying!
- Look at this chapter: everyone is happy but this boy.
- The shepherd is happy. The woman is happy.
- The father is happy. The lost son is happy.
- The servants are happy. The only person in misery is this elder brother.
And, he is miserable because he refuses to be happy. The feast is there, all he has to do is go in and enjoy himself. But, he is standing out there pouting, because he didn’t get his way and because he is not the center of attention!
Have you ever noticed that this is an open-ended story?
Did the elder brother ever come into the feast? We don’t know.
I think Jesus left it this way for a reason.
And here is that reason: Every individual must write his or her own ending to this story!
That's my five minutes!
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
What's the Older Brother's problem?
Luke 15:30 tells us what the older brothers problem was. “But as soon as this thy son was come, which hath devoured thy living with harlots, thou hast killed for him the fatted calf”. Who told him this boy had spent his money on harlots? Did someone SMS him? Did he check his brothers Facebook? Certainly not….
He hasn’t even talked to the boy or to the father. Do you know what’s wrong with him? He’s jealous! He may be at home in his body, but he is in the far country in his heart!
He is as far away from the father as was the other son when he went away. All he wants to do is live it up like the other boy did! But, He can’t, so he gets mad that one who did the very things he wants to do in his heart has been received by the father.
This is what was wrong with the Pharisees. They kept the letter of the Law outwardly, but in their hearts, they longed for sin!
You don’t have to be a drunk to be out of God’s will! You don’t have to be an adulterer to be in the far country spiritually. You can serve your church, sing in the choir, preach the Word, or anything else you want to name and still be out of God’s will!
You can sit in church (the house) mad and resentful over things that may have happened in the past or even in the church. You can look pious and righteous today, but have a heart full of malice because of what someone said or did to you. That puts you in the far country.
When you listen to this boy talk to the father, you quickly realize that he is proud, disrespectful, arrogant, defensive and angry. There is obviously something wrong with the way he is looking at what is happening here. He should be overjoyed that his brother has returned safely from the far country. He should be rejoicing that the father has received a lost son home again. But all he can do is whine, pout and complain.
Notice how this young man handled his anger. He attacked, he criticized and he blamed! This lets you know that his heart is not right!
Why? Because your outward attitudes and actions are a mirror into your heart. OUT OF THE ABUNDANCE OF THE HEART – THE MOUTH SPEAKS! (Matthew 12:34)
To be continued…..
He hasn’t even talked to the boy or to the father. Do you know what’s wrong with him? He’s jealous! He may be at home in his body, but he is in the far country in his heart!
He is as far away from the father as was the other son when he went away. All he wants to do is live it up like the other boy did! But, He can’t, so he gets mad that one who did the very things he wants to do in his heart has been received by the father.
This is what was wrong with the Pharisees. They kept the letter of the Law outwardly, but in their hearts, they longed for sin!
You don’t have to be a drunk to be out of God’s will! You don’t have to be an adulterer to be in the far country spiritually. You can serve your church, sing in the choir, preach the Word, or anything else you want to name and still be out of God’s will!
You can sit in church (the house) mad and resentful over things that may have happened in the past or even in the church. You can look pious and righteous today, but have a heart full of malice because of what someone said or did to you. That puts you in the far country.
When you listen to this boy talk to the father, you quickly realize that he is proud, disrespectful, arrogant, defensive and angry. There is obviously something wrong with the way he is looking at what is happening here. He should be overjoyed that his brother has returned safely from the far country. He should be rejoicing that the father has received a lost son home again. But all he can do is whine, pout and complain.
Notice how this young man handled his anger. He attacked, he criticized and he blamed! This lets you know that his heart is not right!
Why? Because your outward attitudes and actions are a mirror into your heart. OUT OF THE ABUNDANCE OF THE HEART – THE MOUTH SPEAKS! (Matthew 12:34)
To be continued…..
Monday, August 10, 2009
The Older Brother.....lost in the House!
Luke 15:25-30[25] …and as he came and drew nigh to the house, he heard musick and dancing. [26] And he called one of the servants, and asked what these things meant. [27] And he said unto him, Thy brother is come; and thy father hath killed the fatted calf, because he hath received him safe and sound. [28] And he was angry, and would not go in: therefore came his father out, and intreated him. [29] And he answering said to his father, Lo, these many years do I serve thee, neither transgressed I at any time thy commandment: and yet thou never gavest me a kid, that I might make merry with my friends: [30] But as soon as this thy son was come, which hath devoured thy living with harlots, thou hast killed for him the fatted calf.
We often forget the older brother in this story. Very often the focus is always on the prodigal son. But the older brother was also lost…..He was lost in the house! In reading the this story, we find that the older brother had a problem with his motives. When he hears that there is a celebration, he is angry and he refuses to go in to the party. His father comes out and gently pleads with him to come in with the others. His reply to his father is very telling of this boy’s heart.
In verse 29, he reminds the father of his faithful service and complains that he has never been given a feast for what he has done.
It is amazing how many books on church growth point out this problem. It is very common when a church begins to grow and focus on the lost that some people feel like they are missing out and become disgruntled. Those “in the house” want it to be all about them….just like the older brother.
The bottom line here is this:
1. The older brother did not care that his lost brother had come home.
2. The older brother did not care about that which pleased the father.
3. The older brother did not care about the glory of the father, he wanted the glory for what he had been doing.
4. The older brother did not even care about the father, he did what he did for what he could get out of it.
5. The older brother even saw his service to the father as “slavery”.
Watch out for the Spirit of the “older brother”. He didn’t serve his father out of love for the father, but out of a desire to help himself.
What are your motives for what we do? Paul tells us there is but one valid motive.
1 Corinthians 10:31 “…whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.”
To be continued……
Sunday, August 9, 2009
The Sons Return
It was a happy reunion.
Luke 15:20-24 “And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him. And the son said unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and am no more worthy to be called thy son. But the father said to his servants, Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet: And bring hither the fatted calf, and kill it; and let us eat, and be merry: For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. And they began to be merry.”
He found a father filled with love, compassion and grace who received him and loved him back into fellowship!
Now the son is back and he’s standing there in the rags of his sins. He doesn’t look like a child of this father. But, the father orders the best of his robes to be brought and to be put on the son. This robe would cover all the stains and dirt of the pig pen and make him look like the father! What a beautiful picture of Jesus our saviour….when a sinner comes home, they also receive a robe from the heavenly Father. The ring represents the priviledges, and the shoes his position (only slaves went barefoot, sons wore shoes). There was much rejoicing….the son had come home. The fatted calf was the Father's way of sharing His joy with all around.
But the elder brother just couldn’t seem to see the positive side of his younger brothers return. Sadly, this elder brother is a picture of one who is involved in the things of God, but who, sadly, has no real relationship with the father. He might be in the father’s house, but he is still lost. He is still in the “far country” in his heart!
The father loves the elder brother as well!
The elder brother held a position of privilege. As the elder brother he is entitled to two-thirds of His father’s possessions (Deut. 21:17). Since his younger brother has already received his part of the inheritance, (v. 12), everything remaining belongs to the elder brother.
The elder brother was still being productive. The text says that the elder brother was “in the fields”….he’s busy doing the father’s business while his brother is off “living it up”.
The elder brother is a picture of the Pharisees. These people were also in a place of privilege. The looked good to the people around then, but there was a problem within their hearts. The elder brother was lost!
We must be careful that even though we may consider ourselves “mature Christians” and have been serving God for many years….we can still be lost in the house! Your are a good moral person. You come to church. You don’t drink, steal or cheat. You have been baptized and are a church member. From all outward appearances, you are as good as anybody around you. But, just as Jesus could look into the heart of the Pharisee and see his lost condition, He can look within your heart and see that you are lost too.
You can be good, moral and active in the church and still be lost.
To be continued…….
Luke 15:20-24 “And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him. And the son said unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and am no more worthy to be called thy son. But the father said to his servants, Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet: And bring hither the fatted calf, and kill it; and let us eat, and be merry: For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. And they began to be merry.”
He found a father filled with love, compassion and grace who received him and loved him back into fellowship!
Now the son is back and he’s standing there in the rags of his sins. He doesn’t look like a child of this father. But, the father orders the best of his robes to be brought and to be put on the son. This robe would cover all the stains and dirt of the pig pen and make him look like the father! What a beautiful picture of Jesus our saviour….when a sinner comes home, they also receive a robe from the heavenly Father. The ring represents the priviledges, and the shoes his position (only slaves went barefoot, sons wore shoes). There was much rejoicing….the son had come home. The fatted calf was the Father's way of sharing His joy with all around.
But the elder brother just couldn’t seem to see the positive side of his younger brothers return. Sadly, this elder brother is a picture of one who is involved in the things of God, but who, sadly, has no real relationship with the father. He might be in the father’s house, but he is still lost. He is still in the “far country” in his heart!
The father loves the elder brother as well!
The elder brother held a position of privilege. As the elder brother he is entitled to two-thirds of His father’s possessions (Deut. 21:17). Since his younger brother has already received his part of the inheritance, (v. 12), everything remaining belongs to the elder brother.
The elder brother was still being productive. The text says that the elder brother was “in the fields”….he’s busy doing the father’s business while his brother is off “living it up”.
The elder brother is a picture of the Pharisees. These people were also in a place of privilege. The looked good to the people around then, but there was a problem within their hearts. The elder brother was lost!
We must be careful that even though we may consider ourselves “mature Christians” and have been serving God for many years….we can still be lost in the house! Your are a good moral person. You come to church. You don’t drink, steal or cheat. You have been baptized and are a church member. From all outward appearances, you are as good as anybody around you. But, just as Jesus could look into the heart of the Pharisee and see his lost condition, He can look within your heart and see that you are lost too.
You can be good, moral and active in the church and still be lost.
To be continued…….
Friday, August 7, 2009
The Lost Son
He left home saying “Give me!”. He returns home saying “Make me!”
Luke 15 has been called God’s Lost and Found Department. In Luke 15, Jesus used four illustrations dealing with the lost and with His’ desire to see them saved and restored to fellowship with Him. He talks about the lost sheep (1 sheep out of 100, 1%), the lost coin (1 coin out of 10, 10%), and then Jesus talked about the lost son (1 son from 2, 50%).
We hear so much about the story of the prodigal son, but it is the older brother that I want to reflect on in this post.
Luke 15:11-12 “A certain man had two sons: And the younger of them said to his father, Father, give me the portion of goods that falleth to me. And he divided unto them his living”. The request of this younger son was for his share of the inheritance.
In our culture it is the ultimate in “rudeness” to ask for your inheritance! In effect, the son was saying to his father “Dad, I wish you were dead and had no more say in my life! I am tired of you and I want to be free from you and your control in my life”. For the father, it was a shocking and selfish request. The son was seriously self-centred. Even the words “Give me” in verse 12 make me cringe! His life is all wrapped up within himself and he cares for no one else, especially not the father.
The father could have refused and kicked the son out, but he doesn’t. The Bible says, “And he divided unto them his living”. The younger son wanted what the father could give him, but he did not want the father!
It was before too long that the son met a harsh reality.
Luke 15:13-16 “And not many days after the younger son gathered all together, and took his journey into a far country, and there wasted his substance with riotous living. And when he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land; and he began to be in want. And he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country; and he sent him into his fields to feed swine. And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that the swine did eat: and no man gave unto him”. He crash and burned…..big time!
The son gets just what he wants, but soon finds out that “all that glitters is not gold”!
He blew the inheritance on “riotous living”, a life totally given over to sinfulness and wickedness. When the son left home, he also left behind all his moral restraints. Did he have a good time? Oh yes! There is Pleasure in Sin for a Season! (Hebrews 11:25)
Eventually his money ran out and along with the money, he also lost the friends who had helped him spend it (isn’t that always the way?). The far country, a land of “wine, women and song” had become a land of “weeping, worry and sorrow”.
We hear so much about the story of the prodigal son, but it is the older brother that I want to reflect on in this post.
Luke 15:11-12 “A certain man had two sons: And the younger of them said to his father, Father, give me the portion of goods that falleth to me. And he divided unto them his living”. The request of this younger son was for his share of the inheritance.
In our culture it is the ultimate in “rudeness” to ask for your inheritance! In effect, the son was saying to his father “Dad, I wish you were dead and had no more say in my life! I am tired of you and I want to be free from you and your control in my life”. For the father, it was a shocking and selfish request. The son was seriously self-centred. Even the words “Give me” in verse 12 make me cringe! His life is all wrapped up within himself and he cares for no one else, especially not the father.
The father could have refused and kicked the son out, but he doesn’t. The Bible says, “And he divided unto them his living”. The younger son wanted what the father could give him, but he did not want the father!
It was before too long that the son met a harsh reality.
Luke 15:13-16 “And not many days after the younger son gathered all together, and took his journey into a far country, and there wasted his substance with riotous living. And when he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land; and he began to be in want. And he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country; and he sent him into his fields to feed swine. And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that the swine did eat: and no man gave unto him”. He crash and burned…..big time!
The son gets just what he wants, but soon finds out that “all that glitters is not gold”!
He blew the inheritance on “riotous living”, a life totally given over to sinfulness and wickedness. When the son left home, he also left behind all his moral restraints. Did he have a good time? Oh yes! There is Pleasure in Sin for a Season! (Hebrews 11:25)
Eventually his money ran out and along with the money, he also lost the friends who had helped him spend it (isn’t that always the way?). The far country, a land of “wine, women and song” had become a land of “weeping, worry and sorrow”.
This portion of scripture shows us the consequences of sin. Sin brings separation (he left the father and the provision of the family), sin brings sorrow (he wanted), sin brings shame (eating with the pigs), sin brings suffering (no home, no help and no hope), sin brings sadness (he is alone and lonely).
Luke 15:17-20 “And when he came to himself, he said, How many hired servants of my father's have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee, and am no more worthy to be called thy son: make me as one of thy hired servants. And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.”
“When he came to himself” This boy’s time in the far country had been a time of insanity. He hadn’t been thinking clearly!
He makes up his mind to go home! He is tired of life in the far country. He longs for fellowship with the father. He wants to go where he can be loved, fed and cared for.
He left home saying “Give me!”.
He returns home saying “Make me!”
To be continued……
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